Alisha had her 12 week ultrasound the other day. After an internal examination, they said the hemorrhage was no larger. The blood that was there was old blood and they had no idea why Alisha had bleeding on Sunday.
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAn8TjPBxqc
This event has highlighted to me how even something like this can be completely out of your hands. Considering the nature of this site one could make the argument however that it never really was.
The response we’ve had so far has been overwhelming. We’ve even had people offer to adopt rather than go through with the possibility of an abortion vote. While we deeply appreciate the thought, we wouldn’t want to take away the opportunity for the public to make this decision.
Legal but unethical. You two are certainly strange. Perhaps this little one needs to be given up for adoption once born. Seriously, you two are incapable of raising a reasoning child. My goodness!
I could not agree more susan.
I have honestly never thought of voting as strange and unethical before.
YOU’RE VOTING ON WHETHER OR NOT TO KILL A HUMAN BEING. For no reason. And a completely innocent person at that. I don’t think I can fathom anything more strange and unethical. I feel sorry for your unborn child, no matter which fate befalls him or her.
All I can say is that any potential parent who is crass enough to put a poll like this up should just say no to kids. Either you’re making some kind of statement about abortion in principle and weather or not that kind of issue should be “put to a vote” in general – basically pimping out your unborn child for your own political/religious agenda, or you are desperate for fame at any cost (like the dignity of yourselves and your unborn child) or you are actually looking for the advice of the unknown, un-vetted, un-personally referred masses to help you make this decision for real. In any of the above cases my personal vote is NO – do not became parents – not like this. You are right in thinking you may not be ready and the way you have decided to explore this possibility makes it so.
YOU ARE BOTH MONSTERS!!!!!
I can’t believe you are doing this; In my opinion, if this poor unfortunate child gets you as parents, he will be haunted by this “fun” thing you are doing on the web for the rest of his life.
I think you are both sick. And in my opinion, fat, way too overweight to be healthy parents, and obviously the state of your mind is a reflection of the state of your physical bodies. You will regret this for the rest of your selfish lives.
You two need professional help!
Given the gift of carrying a perfectly healthy child is s GIFT… there are some people who would give anything to be able to carry a child, it is completely beyond me why you have done this, surely such an important decision should be between man and wife and not the whole fucking world.
Abortion is something you should not take likely, by the 9th of December your child will be nearly fully formed, all his nerves developing so if you do abort this child it will feel pain, i hope and pray to god this all comes back to haunt you.
This poor unborn baby, i think you should give birth to him and hand him over for adoption to a family who truly want him and deserve him and hope the poor little chap never get’s to hear about this webpage.
12 Years ago i was told i was pregnant after being told i would never conceive, i was only 19 at the time and thought oh o im to young to be a mum for a nano second, then i realized how lucky i was to be pregnant now my daughter has just turned 12 and i must say yes its been hard at times but being a parent is the best thing in the world and so rewarding, i have tried for many years to have another child unsuccessfully 🙁 Pete & Alisha you seriously need to remove this webpage for the sake of the unborn baby, have a thought for him and not your selfish self’s.
Emma
Manchester U.K
you both are disgusting people how could you let a bunch of strangers vote on the life of your child
What is wrong with you?
Please carry this child to term, give birth and if you still don’t want to keep it, let a couple who really wants a baby adopt it.
Desperate for attention or what???!!!
Allthough i voted for you to have a child i think its better for you to have no children.
What if this child will be born with a learning disability – for instance – …,Your child will be the laughing stock of every school or town he enters…teh internet has no time and holds no secrets.
I my opinion this is one of the most ugliest and most selfish things to do.
Are you serious?? I’ve born 4 children into this world and think they are the greatest gift ever!! I would never think of stopping that life in any stage…they are my greatest joy. They bring so much into my life and make it full and meaningful. I can’t wait until they grow up to see what they can do with their lives. There is so much potential in a life…what they can do and accomplish. Why would anyone want to stop that kind of potential?? What a waste!! Aren’t you both glad that your own mothers didn’t take a “poll” as to whether you should be born or not…otherwise you wouldn’t even exist to pull this crazy stunt!
I’ll raise, love and care for him!!! 🙁 Poor little boy who’s life will be decided on a vote! It’s wrong!
You should add a third category to your vote. It is easy to put the life of your unborn baby up for voters to decide. Why dont you add yourselves to the vote. Give birth, get an abortion, kill yourselves. This is a disgusting display you are putting on here!
First of all, I’m totally against abortion. Second of all, the fact that you are using the future of your unborn child for fame or whatever is rediculous. To add on to all of that, you have looked at the pictures of your baby and by 15 or 16 weeks, I know you have felt kicks or something. How could you even THINK of killing that baby? I’m hoping that you decide to keep the baby; however, I think you should take a good hard look at yourselves as people and decide whether or not you deserve this child…I don’t think you do. In this case, I highly recommend finding a couple who actually would give anything to have a child….people who wouldn’t even have to think about whether or not they would keep this baby. That’s what the baby deserves….you deserve nothing.
It took me 5 years to get pregnant. My baby is 11months old. I havent had one night when ive got up at 4 or 5am…im knackered, my husband is shattered . Our daughter is beautiful, and even though i cannot think or move by 6pm… i wouldnt change it for the world.
I have also got post natal depression…through all of this, she is a blessing from Gd
While I see the points others are trying to make about the abortion issue and some see only the baby and not the parents. I know what it is like to not know if you want to bring a life into this world and to change your own. It is a difficult decision; especially with all the negative experiences that you have had already.
I don’t not think that you all are bad or evil or crazy. I find you completely human and honest. I am not going to vote, but I will say this. When you see that baby for the first time and its eyes are your eyes, It does something magical to you. When I had both my daughters ( I thought about abortion too), I was not overwehlmed by those emotions that you hear about when you first give birth, but I grew to love my children as they grew and we grew together. That is love.
Please don’t abort this child. You can give it up for adoption and more than likely the prospective parents will even pay all expenses for you. If you should decide to terminate this pregnancy please have your tubes tied or have your husband get a vasectomy so there will not be any more “mistakes” for you to deal with.
I am appalled by this! I have lost 2 much wanted babies this year and would pay all the money in the world to be where you are now!! To abort or not, is a personal choice, not one you let strangers decide for you! You people are sick, how about you give your precious GIFT to someone who will love and cherish him? Good luck baby boy, I have a feeling you’re gonna need it!
Do you know that Jeremiah 1:5 tells us that BEFORE we are formed in the womb, God knows us? It’s true! He designs & creates each human being. Psalm 127:3 says that God has given you this child as His gift. Your son is not a ‘choice’, he is a person. God has said; “You shall not murder”. Shedding the blood of your little boy is forbidden by Him. “You shall not murder” is not a ‘suggestion’ or a ‘choice’, but a commandment. You can go to http://www.parentprofiles.com to pick a loving couple to be your son’s forever mommy & daddy. Please do so today.
When I was 19 yrs old I got pregnant before Marriage and I placed my little girl up for adoption. She is now 13 yrs old extremely talented, loves the Lord and most of all her Parents who I chose for her. I am now in my early 30’s and Married and had a baby girl 17 months ago. She is the Joy of my life. She is so precious, and is a wonderful gift from God. I believe that when circumstances occur such as miscarriage its all in Gods hands and now you are able to conceive again and God is giving you a precious life. I would just be totally saddened and I don’t even know what I would do if I lost the little girl I have today or even ended my pregnancy when I was 19. The word of God says Thou shall not kill and that means abortion. My love goes out to you guys and your unborn child. Please give your child a life. You will not regret it. I promise! I live in Mn also. Its wonderful here. I hope God fills your heart with eagerness, love, hope and most of all the biggest decision and that is to have your child and to be a very happy family.
A. This is duscusting
B. You shouldn’t be allowed to keep this child
C. You obviously have no normal sence if your going to allow the fricken public to decide the fait of this healthy normal baby!!!
I really dont even know where to start with this. It wrong and unmoral! I cannot believe people think it is cool or right to decide on wether or not for these people to keep this baby! They should have it taken!!!!
Have the baby. If its meant to be, than let it be.
I look at these ultra sound pics and I see a healthy baby, and tears are in my eyes to think that you can’t have more love and concern for this little guy…when my children were born, I felt such a miracle of life…life only God can give, and such a surge of love that they say only a mother can feel. But how will you know unless you allow him to come into the world. And what is wrong with making a choice for life…there are plenty of people who would adopt him if you didn’t want him after he were born. I no not all people should be parents…it is the most selfless job on earth…but the most rewarding I have ever chosen. I would beg of you to reconsider this vote…think of the life that is inside of you…but no matter what you choose, from this point out, I would do something to keep myself from getting pregnant, if by 30 years old, you don’t know what you want…you may not be parent material…but if you abort, you will never know either. I pray for unborn beautiful life inside of you, that God will keep no matter your choice.
I’d just like to say, I had a son born febuary 9th, 1993 that was murdered febuary 2nd, 2008. He was murdered one week before his birthday. I will never get over that…me and my wife would gladly adopt your child and give him a loving home, you have my email address. If your going to have the baby please think about adoption, it would be the only way to somehow redeem this horrorindus act!!!!!
You both are seriously messed up…to think that you can simply take a human like …and this is certainly what it is a human life and expose it to such levels.
You should be jailed until your child is born, have it taken away and given to loving people and then sterilized!
Shame on you for having such an empty and uncaring disposition…I know…maybe if you did not want to have sex you should have kept your legs closed!
I have so much more to say however I completely understand that tying to associate with a sociopath will go on deaf ears. Abortion is a private matter to be handled in the privacy of your home and clinic NOT a public forum for viewing. Imagine this poor child “If he wins the vote” to find this when he / she grows up. You both absolutely sicken me!!!!!
When I read about this at the Daily Mail website I was stunned. First I thought, how incredibly selfish. Then I wondered, what is wrong with these people??? It seems, again, that those in this world who don’t truly appreciate the gift and blessing of a child are so often the ones who get to receive that gift while those who truly do understand what a blessing a child is and long with all their hearts for the opportunity to become parents, so often never receive that blessing. How can you be so far along in your pregnancy, see the pictures of what is obviously now a growing baby and think, “yeah, I guess we should just kill it.” I can’t imagine such a cold and clueless heart. While I don’t think you should murder the child you have been so unexplainably blessed with, I do think you should give the child to parents who really want a family, who will welcome this child into the world, rather than put its life on the line based on an internet poll (of all things!) and who will give this baby the love it deserves, which you two are so obviously incapable of. I am praying for you and your child.
Please choose to have this wonderful gift and if you still are unsure or decide that parenting is not for you – there are so many WONDERFUL couples that would love to adopt your baby. Please choose LIFE.
You are pigs by even thinking of an aportion. That is murder. You are insenitve aholes should be ashamed. You should not even need to ask a question like that. If there is any doubt the put it up for adoption you do not even diserve to have a child if you even have to have a thought like that. I hope if you have it CPS takes the child away. Far away!!!!
I guess to start, I would have to ask why, if you were not sure whether or not you wanted a child and are willing to give the decision to kill a living being to millions of people, did you get pregnant to begin with? What happens if you have this baby and he changes your life in the most wonderful way, then he finds this site in some Internet archive? How will he feel? And if you really don’t want the challenges (and rewards) of having a child, have you considered adoption? Murder is murder, whether in the womb or out. Publishing a site asking whether or not to abort a child is the epitomy of selfishness. Yes, your life will change dramatically. You will lose sleep. Your body will change. Your marriage will change. Your time will not be your own. Your life will not be your own. You will sacrfice friends who do not understand the responsibility of having a child, but you will give birth to another human being that has grown inside of you for nine months. You, or someone else who adopts the child, will have a major role in the development and socialization of this child. This other person will then grow up and play a role in someone else’s life who will play a role in another person’s life, and so on and so on. Don’t abort the baby. If you don’t want to be a mother, give him up for adoption. Just don’t kill him because of your mistake.
My husband and I are unable to have children and we were lucky enough to have a birth mother give us her precious child. She was a drug addict and didn’t want another child. She thought about abortion but knew that she could not live with that decision. She is very happy with her decision. She has contact with her birth son and we make sure he knows that she is a wonderful person. He has close contact with his birth family and is proud to say he has 2 families.
Whatever your decision, please know that you will have to live with it. I have friends who have aborted a child and the pain they feel about their decision is overwhelming.
If you cannot take care of this child then I beg you to consider adoption. You will live your life knowing you were able to help a family achieve their dreams of having a child and you can rest peacefully knowing you did the right thing.
Good luck with your decision and I will be praying for you!
Its very considerate of you to let others have a say in whether you bring a child into an overpopulated world with diminishing resources, to share with other species, many of which, humans, in their short sojourn on the planet, have already carelessly made extinct. Nonetheless as you say, at the end of the day its your choice. I voted for you to have an abortion.
Your child deserves to live. Have the baby and give it up for adoption. There are thousands of women who would crave the opportunity that you are willing to give away.
This is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever heard – You are allowing random people to vote on your unborn child’s life?! That is YOUR decision!! These people voting will have made that choice in a split second! There are no weeks of anticipating their life with this baby, or how they will manage financially or how this will effect you and poor baby – Just for their own amusement which is vile and wrong – How on earth can you allow total strangers to decide this?
It is wrong, and morally (regardless of the vote) my personal (sane) opinion would be have the poor child and give him up for adoption so some sane, loving and caring parents can do right by him.
You are sick. How will you be able to live with yourself knowing that you based a decision as large as this on some vile internet poll?
You’re a disgrace and shouldn’t be able to conceive if you think this whole crazy idea is OK. It is NOT OK.
Oh and I hope you do right by using some fucking contraception next time.
I am beyond appalled that you would even put it ‘up to the public vote’ to determine whether you should give birth to this GIFT! I can’t even begin to understand what is wrong with you. Do you realize that he can feel and touch and hear and see and taste? Do you not understand that he is ALIVE inside of you? Can you not feel that most precious being moving inside of you? I’m so distraught over this whole thing! You should be put in jail and have your uterus removed so this can never happen again! How would you feel if your parents had a website designed to Vote to have you or not? Can you imagine how he will feel years down the road and finds out you did this? For the sake of your unborn child (because this is YOUR CHILD!!!), have the baby and give it up for adoption. You are beyond unfit to raise this child, at least do him a favor and give him to a family that will love and cherish him. How do you sleep at night knowing you are doing something so wrong and unbelievable?